Rafe Spall and Esther Smith, the stars of Apple TV's Trying, have taken their on-screen chemistry to the next level by becoming a couple in real life. The actors, who play Jason and Nikki in the series, found love off-screen and welcomed their first child together in 2024. In an exclusive interview with HELLO!, they opened up about their journey as parents and the joys of their newfound family.
A Special Bond
Esther, 39, describes the experience of becoming a mother as 'special', offering a unique perspective on motherhood. Rafe, 43, shares a similar sentiment, calling fatherhood 'the best thing about my life'. He adds that his two-year-old child is a 'constant delight and a constant joy'.
The couple's chemistry on-screen is evident, but how do they achieve it? Rafe attributes it to Esther's talent, stating that good acting can create chemistry. Esther agrees, emphasizing the importance of a safe and spontaneous environment to foster strong on-screen connections.
Teenage Years and Parenting
Rafe reflects on his turbulent teenage years, often getting into trouble at school due to dyslexia and a lack of educational support. He contrasts this with Esther's description of herself as a 'hormonal nightmare' during her teenage years, complete with gelled-up hair and eyeliner. Despite their different experiences, both actors highlight the challenges and complexities of adolescence.
Rafe also discusses the challenges of parenting, noting that it's an ongoing learning process. He acknowledges that each child is unique, requiring different approaches as parents evolve through life stages. He humorously suggests that the true test of parenting will be revealed in the therapist's bills in the future.
Encouraging Family Traditions
When asked about their children's potential future in the family business, Rafe expresses his support. He believes that if his children choose to pursue acting, he would encourage them, viewing it as an inherent part of their identity. However, he also emphasizes the importance of following one's passions, regardless of family influence.
As the fifth season of Trying airs, Rafe and Esther's characters face new challenges with the biological mother of their adopted children. The show continues to explore the complexities of family dynamics, mirroring the real-life journey of these actors as they navigate parenthood and their successful on-screen partnership.
